diff --git a/src/webpage/jsontypes.ts b/src/webpage/jsontypes.ts
index 78c0892..b7d8bde 100644
--- a/src/webpage/jsontypes.ts
+++ b/src/webpage/jsontypes.ts
@@ -936,7 +936,7 @@ type wsjson =
 	  }
 	| {
 			op: 0;
-			t: "RELATIONSHIP_MODIFY";
+			t: "RELATIONSHIP_UPDATE";
 			d: relationJson;
 			s: number;
 	  }
diff --git a/src/webpage/localuser.ts b/src/webpage/localuser.ts
index 6c97a8d..0223132 100644
--- a/src/webpage/localuser.ts
+++ b/src/webpage/localuser.ts
@@ -908,14 +908,16 @@ class Localuser {
 					guild.memberupdate(temp.d);
 					break;
 				}
-				case "RELATIONSHIP_MODIFY":
+				case "RELATIONSHIP_UPDATE":
 				case "RELATIONSHIP_ADD": {
-					const user = new User(temp.d.user, this);
-					user.handleRelationship(temp.d);
-					this.relationshipsUpdate();
-					const me = this.guildids.get("@me");
-					if (!me) break;
-					me.unreads();
+					(async () => {
+						const user = temp.d.user ? new User(temp.d.user, this) : await this.getUser(temp.d.id);
+						user.handleRelationship(temp.d);
+						this.relationshipsUpdate();
+						const me = this.guildids.get("@me");
+						if (!me) return;
+						me.unreads();
+					})();
 					break;
 				}
 				case "RELATIONSHIP_REMOVE": {
diff --git a/src/webpage/member.ts b/src/webpage/member.ts
index 17340e4..496fa6b 100644
--- a/src/webpage/member.ts
+++ b/src/webpage/member.ts
@@ -172,6 +172,7 @@ class Member extends SnowFlake {
 		this.editProfile(settings.addButton(I18n.user.editServerProfile(), {ltr: true}));
 		settings.show();
 	}
+
 	showEditNick() {
 		const dio = new Dialog("");
 		const form = dio.options.addForm(
diff --git a/src/webpage/user.ts b/src/webpage/user.ts
index 8bf9e0f..2efd360 100644
--- a/src/webpage/user.ts
+++ b/src/webpage/user.ts
@@ -38,6 +38,9 @@ class User extends SnowFlake {
 	members: WeakMap<Guild, Member | undefined | Promise<Member | undefined>> = new WeakMap();
 	status!: string;
 	resolving: false | Promise<any> = false;
+	get headers() {
+		return this.localuser.headers;
+	}
 
 	constructor(userjson: userjson, owner: Localuser, dontclone: boolean = false) {
 		super(userjson.id);
@@ -341,6 +344,30 @@ class User extends SnowFlake {
 				},
 			},
 		);
+		this.contextmenu.addButton(
+			function () {
+				switch (this.relationshipType) {
+					case 1:
+						return I18n.user.nick.friend();
+					case 2:
+						return I18n.user.nick.foe();
+					case 3:
+						return I18n.user.nick.stalker();
+					case 4:
+						return I18n.user.nick.stalking();
+					default:
+						return "You shouldn't see this";
+				}
+			},
+			function (this: User) {
+				this.setFriendNick();
+			},
+			{
+				visable: function () {
+					return new Set([1, 2, 3, 4]).has(this.relationshipType);
+				},
+			},
+		);
 
 		this.contextmenu.addSeperator();
 
@@ -565,6 +592,24 @@ class User extends SnowFlake {
 		);
 		console.warn("this ran");
 	}
+	setFriendNick() {
+		const dio = new Dialog("");
+		const form = dio.options.addForm(
+			"",
+			() => {
+				dio.hide();
+			},
+			{
+				fetchURL: this.info.api + `/users/@me/relationships/${this.id}`,
+				method: "PATCH",
+				headers: this.headers,
+			},
+		);
+		form.addTextInput(I18n.member["nick:"](), "nickname", {
+			initText: this.nickname || "",
+		});
+		dio.show();
+	}
 	getMembersSync() {
 		return this.localuser.guilds
 			.map((guild) => {
@@ -616,7 +661,7 @@ class User extends SnowFlake {
 	}
 
 	get name() {
-		return this.relationshipType === 2 ? I18n.friends.bu() : this.username;
+		return this.nickname || (this.relationshipType === 2 ? I18n.friends.bu() : this.username);
 	}
 
 	async resolvemember(guild: Guild): Promise<Member | undefined> {
@@ -994,14 +1039,22 @@ class User extends SnowFlake {
 		).json()) as highMemberJSON;
 	}
 	handleRelationship(relation: relationJson) {
+		const nickChange = this.nickname !== relation.nickname;
 		this.nickname = relation.nickname;
 		this.relationshipType = relation.type;
 		this.localuser.inrelation.add(this);
+		if (nickChange) {
+			this.nameChange();
+		}
 	}
 	removeRelation() {
+		const nickChange = this.nickname;
 		this.nickname = null;
 		this.relationshipType = 0;
 		this.localuser.inrelation.delete(this);
+		if (nickChange) {
+			this.nameChange();
+		}
 	}
 	async fullProfile(guild: Guild | null | Member = null) {
 		console.log(guild);
diff --git a/translations/en.json b/translations/en.json
index ba9a857..dcd89b7 100644
--- a/translations/en.json
+++ b/translations/en.json
@@ -717,7 +717,13 @@
 		"instanceBan": "Instance ban",
 		"confirmInstBan": "Are you sure you want to instance ban $1?",
 		"unban": "Unban $1",
-		"remove":"Remove user"
+		"remove":"Remove user",
+		"nick":{
+			"friend":"Set friend nickname",
+			"foe":"Set foe nickname",
+			"stalker":"Set nickname of requester",
+			"stalking":"Set nickname of requested"
+		}
 	},
 	"loaded":"Loaded",
 	"login": {