* Record subscribe stream start time in prometheus.
Adjust for mutes, i. e. take the last unmute time as the start point and
calculate time till the first byte is sent.
* close the tiny window of race
* Prevent long tail sample when publisher glitches.
Thanks to @milos-lk for this.
Publisher restarting would have reset the layer and would have caused a
sample with very high stream start time. We only need to capture when we
do a dummy start or when the state is seeded to a different node upon
migration.
* reduce a diff
* test
* changed the wrong thing, thank you Devin
