core: switch to GHC 9.6.3 (#3307)

* Various fixes aggregated
- windows definisions
- set compile rto 9.6.3
- flake adjust to 9.6.3
- update haskellNix
- add various patches

* Unbreak iOS

* update script and sha256map.nix

* ios: update core lib

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Co-authored-by: Moritz Angermann <moritz.angermann@gmail.com>

scripts/nix/direct-sqlcipher-2.3.27-win.patch

@@ -0,0 +1,12 @@
+diff --git a/direct-sqlcipher.cabal b/direct-sqlcipher.cabal
+index 728ba3e..c63745e 100644
+--- a/direct-sqlcipher.cabal
++++ b/direct-sqlcipher.cabal
+@@ -84,6 +84,8 @@ library
+       cc-options: -DSQLITE_TEMP_STORE=2
+                   -DSQLITE_HAS_CODEC
+
++    extra-libraries: ws2_32
++
+     if !os(windows) && !os(android)
+       extra-libraries: pthread