tests, fix: execute in parallel, send connected events after creating chat items, fix race when merging multiple members to one contact (#7500)

* tests: execute in parallel

* remove race in terminal

* fix some tests

* stop chat controller on exit

* fix more tests

* fix tests

* query plans

* update simplexmq

* update direct-sqlcipher

* fix tests

* query plans

* ios: update core

* fix tests

* update simplexmq and direct-sqlcipher, fixes

* simplexmq

* update simplexmq

* parallel channel tests

* update tests

* fix tests

* fix tests

* query plans

* fix test

* more tests in CI

* use ram drive in CI

* fix tests, fix directory deleting voice file before it is uploaded

* fix query

* fix query to use index

* link contact and channel owner profile when connecting via a signed link

* update simplexmq, fix ghc 8.10.7

* fix tests

* avoid double stop

* query plans

* fix more test races

* more test fixes

* fix queries

* fixes

* more fixes

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Co-authored-by: Evgeny @ SimpleX Chat <259188159+evgeny-simplex@users.noreply.github.com>

simplex-chat.cabal

@@ -779,7 +779,7 @@ test-suite simplex-chat-test
   default-extensions:
       StrictData
   -- add -fhpc to ghc-options below to run tests with coverage
-  ghc-options: -O2 -Weverything -Wno-missing-exported-signatures -Wno-missing-import-lists -Wno-missed-specialisations -Wno-all-missed-specialisations -Wno-unsafe -Wno-safe -Wno-missing-local-signatures -Wno-missing-kind-signatures -Wno-missing-deriving-strategies -Wno-monomorphism-restriction -Wno-prepositive-qualified-module -Wno-unused-packages -Wno-implicit-prelude -Wno-missing-safe-haskell-mode -Wno-missing-export-lists -Wno-partial-fields -Wcompat -Werror=incomplete-record-updates -Werror=incomplete-patterns -Werror=missing-methods -Werror=incomplete-uni-patterns -Werror=tabs -Wredundant-constraints -Wincomplete-record-updates -Wunused-type-patterns -Werror=name-shadowing -threaded
+  ghc-options: -O2 -Weverything -Wno-missing-exported-signatures -Wno-missing-import-lists -Wno-missed-specialisations -Wno-all-missed-specialisations -Wno-unsafe -Wno-safe -Wno-missing-local-signatures -Wno-missing-kind-signatures -Wno-missing-deriving-strategies -Wno-monomorphism-restriction -Wno-prepositive-qualified-module -Wno-unused-packages -Wno-implicit-prelude -Wno-missing-safe-haskell-mode -Wno-missing-export-lists -Wno-partial-fields -Wcompat -Werror=incomplete-record-updates -Werror=incomplete-patterns -Werror=missing-methods -Werror=incomplete-uni-patterns -Werror=tabs -Wredundant-constraints -Wincomplete-record-updates -Wunused-type-patterns -Werror=name-shadowing -threaded -rtsopts "-with-rtsopts=-N"
   build-depends:
       QuickCheck ==2.14.*
     , aeson ==2.2.*
@@ -842,5 +842,6 @@ test-suite simplex-chat-test
     build-depends:
         bytestring ==0.10.*
       , hspec ==2.7.*
+      , hspec-core ==2.7.*
       , process >=1.6 && <1.6.18
       , text >=1.2.4.0 && <1.3