tests, fix: execute in parallel, send connected events after creating chat items, fix race when merging multiple members to one contact (#7500)

* tests: execute in parallel

* remove race in terminal

* fix some tests

* stop chat controller on exit

* fix more tests

* fix tests

* query plans

* update simplexmq

* update direct-sqlcipher

* fix tests

* query plans

* ios: update core

* fix tests

* update simplexmq and direct-sqlcipher, fixes

* simplexmq

* update simplexmq

* parallel channel tests

* update tests

* fix tests

* fix tests

* query plans

* fix test

* more tests in CI

* use ram drive in CI

* fix tests, fix directory deleting voice file before it is uploaded

* fix query

* fix query to use index

* link contact and channel owner profile when connecting via a signed link

* update simplexmq, fix ghc 8.10.7

* fix tests

* avoid double stop

* query plans

* fix more test races

* more test fixes

* fix queries

* fixes

* more fixes

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Co-authored-by: Evgeny @ SimpleX Chat <259188159+evgeny-simplex@users.noreply.github.com>

tests/ChatTests/DBUtils/Postgres.hs

@@ -2,5 +2,6 @@ module ChatTests.DBUtils.Postgres where
 
 data TestParams = TestParams
   { tmpPath :: FilePath,
+    portBase :: Int,
     printOutput :: Bool
   }