Allow regexes for filtered_attributes, filtered_cache and filtered_optimistic options (#13047)

* Ensure filtered_attributes and filtered_optimistic are also regex

Bring filtered_attributes and filtered_optimistic in line with the newer filtered_cache.
All three of them are now regex matches instead of absolute matches.

* update tests to use regex ^$ anchors

* utils: add filterProperties

lib/controller.ts

@@ -266,9 +266,7 @@ class Controller {
         }
 
         // Filter mqtt message attributes
-        if (entity.options.filtered_attributes) {
-            entity.options.filtered_attributes.forEach((a) => delete message[a]);
-        }
+        utils.filterProperties(entity.options.filtered_attributes, message);
 
         if (Object.entries(message).length) {
             const output = settings.get().advanced.output;