- worker selection uses power-of-two-choices over live in-flight streams
(InflightStreams / SpareStreams) instead of weighted-random over a
reported load; the conn pick stays least-loaded. In-flight is observed
locally so it is correct for adopted wires, and the reported Load hook is
dropped from the endpoint path.
- the front tags its own routing misses (X-Livekit-Endpoint-Miss) so a relay
caller can distinguish them from a worker app's own 404/405 and retry past
them across the remaining candidates.
- a data-wire attach is bound to the connecting grant's api key, so a leaked
attach token cannot bind a conn to another project's worker.
- remove the dead scope-hook machinery (it only fed the removed bus resolve)
and rename the request identity from "scope" to apiKey.